TMI Tuesday

1. Have you ever attended a group masturbation party? Same-sex or mixed?

Can't say's I ever have done that.

2. When masturbating, as you reach orgasm, do you continue to stimulate yourself without interruption, or do you stop and apply pressure until your spasms subside? Or?

Points for an original question! I keep going.

3. Have you ever video'ed yourself while masturbating (solo)? Where are they now?

No, I was too shy, though I do have a video of a significant other doing so.

4. Have you ever looked at porn online? Have you ever posted porn online?

Have definitely looked at/watched lots of it. While I've made porn, I'm not sure if it's actually been posted online (I'm not counting my home basement server).

5. Do you send/recieve dirty email jokes and pictures?

Text messages, yes! As far as jokes, I just tell them!

Bonus: Have you ever told someone they were good in bed when they weren't?

Yes, but it wasn't a malicious lie; I didn't know any better.

TMI Tuesday #195

TMI Tuesday

1. Would you stay in a loveless relationship for the amazing sex?

Maybe for a little while, but not forever.

2. If you could only have one, which would you choose: love that lasts forever or great, body numbing sex?

Love.

3. Looking back at your past loves, which one should you have married/taken back and who should you have tossed earlier than you did?

There are none I should have stayed with longer than I did. I probably should have gotten rid of my first girlfriend way before I did...but then again, that's how we learn these lessons. A mistake is not a mistake but instead a lesson if you learn from it.

4. if you had one last fuck in you where, how and who would you “give it” to?

Whoever I was with at the time, and it would be as spectacular as possible.

5. Which is more important sex, money, love and happiness? (and no, you can’t pick’em all)

Happiness. Having those other things are part of happiness, but not all of it; and not everyone even needs all of those to be happy. Happiness is whatever you find it to be for you. And if you are truly happy, who cares if you haven't got any of those things?

TMI Tuesday #192

TMI Tuesday

Have you ever...

1. had sex with someone ten years older or younger than you?

Yes - 13 years in fact.

2. drawn from a nude model or been a nude model?

No, but if someone paid me I'd be happy to!

3. had sex at a company Christmas party?

Hehe. No.

4. had a blind date?

No, I'd never do that. I'd be way too uncomfortable.

5. slept with a teacher?

No...

Bonus (as in optional): had sex with someone within an hour of meeting them?

Nope, not that either! Damn, this week made me sound boring.

TMI Tuesday #190

TMI Tuesday

1. What was the last movie you saw on a date?

Wolverine...unfortunately, the guys sitting behind us wouldn't shut the fuck up for more than two minutes at a time throughout the entire movie. Determined to beat up at least one of them in the parking lot afterwards, I was most disappointed when the movie was over and I realized they were all about 12.

2. What was the last meal you had on a date?

Steak tips and pasta, right after the aforementioned movie.

3. When was the last time you made out in the car on a date? More?

Can't even remember.

4. Using dating websites do you think you are more likely to find a "hook up" or a relationship?

I never use those things; they sketch me out.

5. Do you have any special "first" date rituals? Flowers, certain restaurant, etc.?

Since I don't start dating someone until I'm already friends with them, and I'm never exactly sure what to count as a "first date," I can't really answer that.

TMI Tuesday #189

TMI Tuesday

1. Before the industrial revolution, most people never traveled more than 30 miles from their home. How far from your birth place do you now live?

About one hundred miles from where I was actually born, and a little over eighty miles from where I grew up. Pathetic, in my mind. I hope to get MUCH farther away.

2. What is the farthest distancet from home you have ever had sex or an orgasm? What is the farthest distance you have travelled from your home to have a sexual encounter?

Couldn't tell you in miles exactly, but it would have been Southern Italy. I could also count France, but I think that's a little closer. (Yes, my geography is embarrassing.) And I've never travelled anywhere for the express purpose of having a sexual encounter.

3. How many states and countries have you had sex and/or an orgasms in?

Five states: New Hampshire, Massachusetts, Michigan, New York, and Nevada

Five countries: USA, Canada, France, Italy, Ecuador

4. Have you ever had sex in a vehicle? While the vehicle was moving?

Had sex in the back seat of my old VW out back of a movie theater once, and have given "road head" while doing fifty mph.

5. Do you have any travel related fantasy? If so, share, please.

Not a particular one, though travelling and sex are definitely a good combination!

Bonus: On holidays that honor our military do you tend to rememeber those currently serving or veterans of military service?

Both, though the person foremost in my mind is always my father, who served in the Marines in Vietnam during the early part of the war. He would have been a very different person if he hadn't served, and he would probably still be alive.

TMI Tuesday #188

TMI Tuesday

1. Have you ever participated in HNT? If so, when? If not, why not?

Yes, once. Maybe a month or two months ago...

2. Have you ever avoided certain sites because of the HNT pictures that were posted?

Nope, I don't avoid pictures. I'm too curious for my own good sometimes.

3. Have you ever posted a HNT picture that you wish that you hadn't?

No...I've only posted once, hehe.

4. Do you email/text/call anyone regularly with someone you met through HNT?

Nope. I'm not that involved in it.

5. What percentage of your online friends are current or former HNTers?

Don't know...a couple of them.

6. Does anyone in your "real" life know that you do HNT (if, of course, you do)?

One person, as of yesterday.

7. Other than previously-known friends, have you met any fellow HNTers?

Never.

8. Have you ever downloaded someone else's HNT pictures?

BONUS QUESTION: Have you ever submitted a picture for "...the Other HNT"?

I don't even know what that is, but now I want to! It sounds intriguing!

TMI Tuesday - HNT Anniversary Edition!

TMI Tuesday on Saturday

I just can't seem to be bothered to post these things on Tuesdays.

1. Which traits from your parents do you see in yourself?

Addictive personality I got from dad...I'll take the workaholic side. I just hope I don't take the alcoholic side with it. From mom, perfectionism and OCD.

2. Which traits from you/your partner do you see in your children (if you don't have kids, which would you like to see)?

Seeing as I don't even like kids and probably don't want any...let's just leave that at "dot dot dot."

3. How did you get the birds-and-bees talk?

Mom sat me down at the age of 9 and told me the facts. Nothing exciting here.

4. What was your favorite childhood book?

I was addicted to the series...Alex Mack, The Babysitters' Club, Sabrina the Teenage Witch...basically the little kids' version of trashy romance novels.

5. What is your favorite piece of erotic literature?

I don't really have one; I honestly don't read much of it. Diana Gabaldon's books are pretty good, though.

Bonus: What is the one thing you wish you could go back and tell yourself as a child?

Draw more.

Double Bonus: If your life were a book or movie, what would the title be?

Fearless in Small Adventure

TMI Tuesday 186

TMI Tuesday!

1. Have you ever had a sexual experience with the opposite sex?
Oh yes. I have also done so with the same sex! I like swinging both ways, there's more options...

2. When you see someone you like, how do you act, how do you get their attention?
I'm just me. I never change. I'm friendly, I ask questions, I listen, I talk. I flirt if flirted with, though I don't tend to start flirting of my own accord.

3. Dominate or dominated, which do you prefer?
To be dominated, 90% of the time. The other 10%, I'm actually a pretty good dom myself.

4. Would you/have you ever had a threesome?
In fact, I have. It's how I got together with Kevin, by dating him and the girl he was dating at the time. It was certainly an interesting experience and I would never take it back, but I'm not really sure I'd like to repeat it, either.

5. When was the last time you had sex?
That would be two nights ago. I was so drunk and so miserable. The last time I had good sex was around the middle of last week, maybe Wednesday night.

6. Sex on the first date...good or bad?
Totally depends on the people involved and what you define as "first date." I've never gone on a date without having already been friends with someone first and already turned the corner to being in a romantic-type relationship, so first date for me is nowhere near the first time I've actually met someone. In that case, sex after the first date is fine.

7. Do you have any random or out of the ordinary turn ons?
Define ordinary! I like to be bitten and scratched, tied up and dominated...but in the bdsm world, those are normal. I guess the most unusual one I can think of is that I really like the smell of the bridge of my partner's nose; I think it's a pheromone center or something.

8. What attributes attract you to a potential partner?
Friendly, outgoing, likes to laugh and adventure, is open-minded.

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TMI Wednesday (oops)

So I fail at being timely. Oh well.

1. Ever Googled a date, a potential date or an ex?
I searched an ex, but only turned up one thing and it was totally boring.

2. Do you gossip?
I try not to. I hate gossip.

3. How many people do you completely trust?
Hard to say right now...I know I do trust my mom, Wren, and Even.

4. Have you ever had sex in car?
Yep, back when I was with my female ex from high school. We did it behind the movie theater!

5. What is your best flirting technique: innuendo, telling a dirty joke, talking about sex life, or physical contact?
Definitely innuendo. When my mind is in the gutter, I can turn anything at all into a sexual reference.

Bonus (as in optional): How many times is the most you have ever had sex in a 24 hour period?
At least 5...there was this camping trip...that tent got a lot of exercise.

TMI Tuesday

1. Are you pro-marriage? Why or why not?

I'm for marriage in general, but not the way many people treat it. I disagree with those who think their lives are over or ruined if they're not married by the age of 25. Take your time and make sure you've found the one!

2. Have you ever invented or thought you invented a sexual position?

Not that I can remember...

3. Do you like to be tied up? Always or sometimes?

I love to be tied up. I will also sometimes do the tying, but my switchy self leans much more to sub than dom. I do also enjoy some time with my hands free.

4. Do you consider online cybering adultery?

Yep.

5. Do you prefer masturbation over real sex?

HELL no! I hardly ever do it for myself because I prefer the real thing that much.

6. Do you want sex more times a day than your partner?

No...

7. Do you get offended when you partner openly flirts with others or are you okay with it?

It doesn't bother me. I trust him.

8. Do you think you're flirty by nature?

People seem to think I'm flirting with them just because I'm my open, friendly self with strangers just like I am with friends. I don't mean it to be flirting, though. It's just my way of getting along with people.

TMI Tuesday #177

TMI Tuesday

1. Is there a sexual act/position/practice that you were sure in advance you would hate (or never try) and then discovered to your surprise you loved?

Sex with a guy! I was convinced for a while that I was a lesbian...exclusive, long-term relationship with a girl and all that. I loved making love to her, but when she penetrated me (whether with her fingers or a dildo) I always ended up crying. It seemed to the be the sensation that caused that reaction, so I was terrified that the first time I had sex with a guy it would wind up in tears, but it didn't. I LOVED it. Haven't let a woman penetrate me since ;)

2. Is there a sexual act/position/practice that proved a lot less interesting in practice than you thought it would be beforehand?

Sixty-nine. Blah. Boring. The view of blanket/balls just does nothing for me.

3. How do you let your significant other know you're in the mood? How do you let a new person in your life know?

I pick a body part and start licking/sucking/nibbling. With siginificant other, it can be any - hands, neck, ears, mouth, whatever (though I don't suck toes). With someone new, either I'll nibble their neck or ear or I'll just let my hands cause their own trouble while we're making out.

4. How does your significant other let you know he/she is in the mood?

Pretty much any way he can, from kissing to nibbling to saying "Let's go upstairs and get naked." Sometimes I'm woken up in the middle of the night by his hard-on poking me in the lower back, too.

5. Is there one that got away - a sexual opportunity you didn't realise was one at the time, or weren't ready for and regret missing ever since?

There was one guy that I almost had a fling with. We got as far as doing oral, but I didn't let him actually have intercourse with me. I kind of wished later that I'd lost my virginity to him, but I've never really decided once and for all if I honestly do wish that.

I'd link back to TMI Tuesday if I hadn't lost the link. Oops. Anyone care to help me out?

TMI Tuesday

1. What do find is the most exciting part of a new sexual encounter?

Any first touch. The first time you hold hands, the first time you kiss, the first nibble...they are all dizzying.

2. Do you have "a most exciting part of a sexual encounter" with a usual partner?

It would have to be something that doesn't happen often. I would love him to be more rough with me.

3. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you just met?

Not enough to get me in trouble, but I'm not shy about saying things.

4. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you work with?

A particular someone? A little too much, but see my last post. Others I work with? Ehh, somewhat...some of the girls at the diner have noticed what's going on, and I'm not going to lie to them.

5. How open and honest are you about your life with a casual acquaintance who lives in your neighborhood (or the parent of your child's friend or...)?

If I see someone enough, I get close to them pretty fast, and like I said - I'm not secretive with strangers.

This is from TMI Tuesday #175.